We made it.
The boys did so well on the plane. And the college student sitting next to Jt handled it like a champ. There was only mild screaming.
This summer Over a 6 week period, Brian will be gone for 4 of them. At one point he will only be home for 3 hours before he has to leave again.
So I'm also leaving. There isn't a lot going on in the summer, and I don't want to be home alone with the boys for all that time. I wasn't built to be a wife with a traveling husband.
The boys and I will fly into DC and spend a week with Brian's parents. From there, we'll fly up to Maine to visit with my family for a couple of weeks. I'm not sure when I'm returning just because of funds and flights, but it will be sometime in July.
I'm excited, sad, and nervous all at the same time. I'm super excited to see all of Brian's family and get to hang out with our friends back in Maryland and Virginia. We miss them a lot. I'm am equally excited to be in Maine with my family. We're going to spend time with my grandparents, go strawberry picking and eat lots of Houlton Farms Dairy. (Ice cream).
We're really going to miss our friends in here. And I'm going to miss the sun. Maine doesn't really get sun.
I'll be back in Texas some time in mid-July. So for those of you in the county reading this- which is probably just my mom- I would love to get together and hang out.
I felt the need to write all of this out so there wasn't any rumors as to why I was leaving Texas for a month with my two babies, and with out my husband.
Please pray for us.
Pray for Brian's Heath and safety. He needs to be healthy for all these trips and just one full week of teenagers is exhausting.
Pray for the boys. That they handle all of the transitions well. JT is a social butterfly and will miss his friends. Especially in Maine.
Pray for my sanity. Brian's is the yin to my yang, Joel to my Ethan, Damon to my Affleck, (too much Gilmore girls). I don't do well with out him, which is pathetic and feel free to gag, but it's true.
The house that Brian and I were interested in didnt work out. which is totally ok. It was best for both parties. Plus My student loans are reporting incorrectly to the credit agencies. 👍🏻 so it's good we went though the process of applying for a loan. But buying a house really isn't a option right now. (Unless we win the lottery💰💸💵)
However, I found this gem last week.
We told our Maintenance department Saturday and of course nobody has even showed up to look at it never mind a plan to fix it.
I'm about to mama bear this situation and black out, because I can also smell the nasty moisture in the air once our AC kicks on.
So, we need to move. Moving to another apartment complex sounds terrible to me. Plus we have a very small budget. We'd love to rent a house.
Pray with us.
Pray we can find something with in our budget, quickly, that is also safe for us to be in. Also for you Texans keep your eyes and ears open. Or if you have previous experience in an apartment complex and it's not killing you slowly- let me know.
💕 thank you
We're finally healthy from the stomach flu.
Thank you for all who gave food and such, it was all very appreciated.
As you know we have mold. Which is why we catch EVERYTHING. Well a very long story short we have put a contract on a house. We still don't have a loan, we aren't sure if we can get out of our lease with out paying. We're some where between trusting and stupidity.
If this happens we want to do "casa Colligan" once a month. Where the young life and Woodcreek kids can come and hang out. Video games, music, play outside and eat. Just to escape and hang out.
Pray with us. Just asking for Gods will. And if this all happens it will be a Miracle .
I can't believe the boys are 3 and 1. My sweet babies are growing up. Liam is trying so hard to walk. And JT is slamming the door out of anger......
Last week we celebrated their birthdays. I didn't want to have a big party because 1. We have no money and 2. We don't know enough people. So we just had some very special people over for pizza and cookies and we played. It was perfect.
I'n sorry that I didn't really post in Jan. I was having a pitty party about missing my friends and other various things. Not only that but we literally haven't stopped since we got back from Maryland. It's just been one thing after another.
anyway. I'm thankful that I have friends who told encouraged me to take out my boys. I want to make days like, birthdays and Valentine's Day special so that when they are married, they make their wives feel special.
Jt was not impressed that he had to wear a button up. He HATES button ups. Which I don't understand. He just looks so handsome! I told him that there are some dates that you can dress casual but this wasn't one of them. I also made him wear his blue suede shoes.
We went to Olive Garden. And the boys had spaghetti. Foolish mother. Notice the white shirts.
All in all it was a good time. Minimal tears and some smiles. We finished it off with Liam napping and JT And I sharing a McFlurry.
Date your kids!
(But date your spouse more)